I cleaned, cooked, drop off, pick up, baths, showers, school volunteer, field trips, grocery shopping, cut the grass, do projects around the house, laundry, teach, play, I am constantly with them 24/7 and the only time I have for work is when they fall asleep. But I am still horny as f when my wife gets home. Maybe because men are built differently. Have an honest conversation with her and find the root of the issue. Once you know where the root lies you’ll be able to work from there.