I told her in the first semester that I like her and kind of love her, but she said no. Till the day, I still love her a lot. Nowadays, we are not even good friends. What should I do? Marriage is not the only way to show your commitment to the person you loved. Marriage is a customary practice that unites two people and their families, but will they remain committed forever is always a questionable factor, depending on how strong or weak their marital bond is going to be. If you do not want to marry her, make sure she understands why and does not feel dumped. But you both want to continue to love each other, its purely a wish of your both hearts. I have been deeply in love with a girl who is a classmate of mine.