Your partner is telling you to dope up your child because he doesn’t want to hear her tantrums. Leave. Tell him to disappear and never come back. She is 5 with emotions that we are all feeling during this time but can’t display them like an adult. Hug her and be her safe place. You are doing nothing wrong. Stay strong and be patient. Ask her why she is acting out and try to convince her to talk about what is upsetting or stressing her out.
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