Also if he loves you he should be wanting to resolve things w/ his baby mama so you two can live your lives in peace. Typing this answer sucks because I know its not a feel-good answer, but I have been in something similar and looking back I shoulda left and taken a break from the relationship. He was “in love” with me but still living with his ex he broke up with due to financial reasons. He never left the house and after 5 months or so they got back together. I even offered him to move in with me and my roommate’s house but he made excuses and I believed him. My opinion on drama now is drama free if you can control it.
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