No, because if i’m on an active relationship with someone that means that deep down inside i know how long it took me to get in there, i basically don’t only love that person or feed feelings for that person, i respect, value, appreciate, care, trust and commit to that person.
I would have went to see my ex and grant her wish if she was really sick and wanted to see me for the last time, however i would have never went back to her, that’s just me, every human being has a different value in my eye, i won’t ruin something beautiful that took me years to build, basically a beautiful home in matter of seconds. I would have went in there to grant her wish and show her my humanity as a friend, nothing more nothing less, it’s really important to grant someones wishes when they are suffering from a serious illness or they are sick. I’m talking about a life threatening sickness also keep in mind, if she was plainly sick from a cold or something curable i would have never went in there to begin with, because that would have been an excuse to see me, and i would have never ruined something beautiful that i’m having with my current ex.
The easiest part of the relationship is to build feelings for someone the hardest part of the relationship is to build trust it takes a really long time, that’s why people fail over and over again, it takes a really long road to build trust, if someone breaks that trust in matter of seconds he or she was never in there to begin with.
It happens in most of the friendship cases, talk to her understand from when she is feeling this? If you too feel the same then go for a date and get to know each other better.
Since the Covid 19 Pandemic is Really a PANIC due to the Media Hype just to Destroy Our America First President It Makes you Wonder What their America Hating Agenda is Really all About. Since the Covid 19 Numbers are Completely Phoney I don’t Worry about it. After All I have heard Many Stories How the “Positive” Results have Come back on Brand New Unused Swabs. That a Nurse Suspected Fowl Play and got her Co-workers to all send in Brand New Sterile Swabs for testing under different Fake Names and they all came back Positive. They I’ve heard Of Numerous Cases of People having died in Vehicle Accidents and other Causes to find out they were Listed as “Death by Covid”. Then there has been the CDC taking the reports to them and Multiplying them before giving to the President. That’s why they have been taken Out of the Loop. They Don’t Close Down the Country for the Flu, So Why Should we close the Country Down for a Virus that mostly don’t effect Kids has a Lower Death Rate than the Flu? Media Hype is all it is!
Be sure to make a plan for your next visit before this one ends. At least plan to bring over a meal or take them out for a meal next time and spend some time visiting; let their behavior and preferences set the tone for the rest of the relationship. Whatever you do, do not give up on them because until they are gone, there is always hope, no matter what.
A: As someone who was supposedly terminal twice, I would certainly suggest you leave the “many happy returns” out of it and just wish them happy birthday and tell them how much they mean to you, how many good times you remember having with them so far. Share photos to laugh/cry over together if you have them.