All these impact on what the relationship will be for their future partner. But then, we also see a huge, huge, change people don’t seem to understand themselves when the relationship goes from dating to committed. It moves from strategy/tactical process to roles learned at home. “It’s just the way we do it” and they will expect their partner to do the counterpoint role with no objection. There will be conflict. Sometimes because that is part of the role. I’ve had a surprising number of patients say, I went to bed on our wedding night with one person and woke up with someone else!
i been with my girlfriend for almost 3 three years we recently had a baby boy we are planning to get married this year. the problem is she treats me like i dont exist more and more i feel like we’re growing apart. i work full time have a good job we have a new car i’m also just finished the process to become a police officer to start a better career i Love her & our child i take care of them pay all the bills she doesn’t have to work and i only ask for her time i even shes my heart and it hurts so much the way things are now i dont know want to do or if im the blame i dont do anything either im faithful and treat her with respect theres no abuse either i just do my best everyday and thats why im so hurt and confused i feel honestly there’s some else or shes on her way out thanks for the help … here the context to my question
Lily has every right to kick Snape out of her life. I’m all for my fellow Snape haters going into detail about Snape’s atrocious behaviour as a friend. I do the same thing. But the con is there is this implied message that somehow Snape has to meet some standard of atrocious behaviour before Lily can be justified in ending the friendship with him.