I need Jack Skellington just a Disney girl who loves Nightmare shirt The good thing about this is that even though the birth mother is toxic that child will connect strongly with Dad just like my SD did with us. She’s an adult now. Anyone that is held from their father for no good reason will see and read between the lines. If I could estimate I’d say about age 12 the questions will begin. Her plans will fall apart. All it takes is time and painful events such as this one. What a garbage mother. I can tell she is not a reasonable type because she showed her true self by threatening the girlfriend of one year. Helene. That’s a pretty harsh judgment based on only one side of the story. I agree 100% that kiddos should NEVER be used as pawns though.